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#LGBTQ: Wentworth Miller Posts Response To Being Body-Shamed, “I Was Suicidal”

By Trey Speegle on March 29, 2016 4:57 am

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People get ribbed and teased for sometimes harmless things on the internet, sometimes no-so-harmless things. But the Internet, people, cross a line more and more often in an attempt to be witty or get “shares”. Yesterday, Prison Break star Wentworth Miller found himself the subject of a mean meme, which seemed to be more straight-up body-shaming. The actor, who has battled depression, took to his Facebook account with a response that deserves a read. The meme has since been taken down by @TheLadBible, who posted it.

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Miller’s message in full:

Today I found myself the subject of an Internet meme. Not for the first time.

This one, however, stands out from the rest.

In 2010, semi-retired from acting, I was keeping a low-profile for a number of reasons.

First and foremost, I was suicidal.

This is a subject I’ve since written about, spoken about, shared about.

But at the time I suffered in silence. As so many do. The extent of my struggle known to very, very few.

Ashamed and in pain, I considered myself damaged goods. And the voices in my head urged me down the path to self-destruction. Not for the first time.

I’ve struggled with depression since childhood. It’s a battle that’s cost me time, opportunities, relationships, and a thousand sleepless nights.

In 2010, at the lowest point in my adult life, I was looking everywhere for relief/comfort/distraction. And I turned to food. It could have been anything. Drugs. Alcohol. Sex. But eating became the one thing I could look forward to. Count on to get me through. There were stretches when the highlight of my week was a favorite meal and a new episode of TOP CHEF. Sometimes that was enough. Had to be.

And I put on weight. Big f–king deal.

One day, out for a hike in Los Angeles with a friend, we crossed paths with a film crew shooting a reality show. Unbeknownst to me, paparazzi were circling. They took my picture, and the photos were published alongside images of me from another time in my career. “Hunk To Chunk.” “Fit To Flab.” Etc.

My mother has one of those “friends” who’s always the first to bring you bad news. They clipped one of these articles from a popular national magazine and mailed it to her. She called me, concerned.

In 2010, fighting for my mental health, it was the last thing I needed.

Long story short, I survived.

So do those pictures.

I’m glad.

Now, when I see that image of me in my red t-shirt, a rare smile on my face, I am reminded of my struggle. My endurance and my perseverance in the face of all kinds of demons. Some within. Some without.

Like a dandelion up through the pavement, I persist.

Anyway. Still. Despite.

The first time I saw this meme pop up in my social media feed, I have to admit, it hurt to breathe. But as with everything in life, I get to assign meaning. And the meaning I assign to this/my image is Strength. Healing. Forgiveness.

Of myself and others.

If you or someone you know is struggling, help is available. Reach out. Text. Send an email. Pick up the phone. Someone cares. They’re waiting to hear from you.
Much love. –
W.M. ‪#‎koalas‬ ‪#‎inneractivist‬ ‪#‎prisonbroken
‬

@TheLadBible, who is shamed now? I guess you because they posted this response;

“We posted two pictures of you last night to our Facebook page, but today we want to say we’ve got this very, very wrong. Mental health is no joke or laughing matter.​

We certainly didn’t want to cause you pain by reminding you of such a low point in your life. Causing distress and upset to innocent or vulnerable people is simply not acceptable.

We applaud your raw honesty and promise to now cover such matters in the responsible manner that our audience expects. Responding head-on to our post is something we applaud as it will help others through similar challenges in their lives.

Once again, we got this very wrong, and we wanted to say sorry.

They then posted seven links to worldwide mental health and suicide prevention charities including the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention and The Trevor Project.

Miller declined an invitation to attend the St. Petersburg International Film Festival last year because of the country’s anti-gay laws. In a speech the same year, at the Human Rights Campaign Seattle Gala, the actor admitted,

“Growing up I was a target. Speaking the right way, standing the right way, holding your wrist the right way. Every day was a test and there were a thousand ways to fail, a thousand ways to betray yourself, to not live up to someone else’s standards of what was accepted, of what was normal.”

The actor said that he first attempted suicide at the age of 15, adding,

“[W]hen someone asks me if that was a cry for help, I’d say, ‘No.’ You only cry for help if you believe there’s help to cry for. And I didn’t need it, I wanted out.”

You’re my new hero, W.M. Sweet, smart, vulnerable, talented and handsome AF. No shame here. (via Vanity Fair)

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