It’s another Brilliant episode of The Brill of it All! This week, the ever-babelicious Queen of the Night/makeup mogul Dianne Brill sits down drag icon Joey Arias to discuss important topics like “How to Meet a Lover” and “How to Break the Ice at a Party.” Joey’s advice? Give ’em a bump! And no, not THAT kind of bump, silly! Just BUMP INTO THEM! Knock ’em out of their iPhone-induced stupor! Make eye contact! Smile! Ask them if they’ve met before! Anything to get the conversation rolling!

Watch these two masters of the game break it down for you, below. (PS – Joey has a faaaaabulous story about grabbing a famous hunk’s junk that has to be heard to be believed – DO NOT MISS IT!)

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